If you’re planning on using your dildo vaginally then I’d

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Whether you use it by yourself or with a partner, it allows you to better explore and discover what can best work for you in the bedroom. While its main function is vaginal and anal penetration, some may use its length and features to stimulate the g spot or clitoris, in order to achieve different pleasure sensations. As long as you’re satisfied (like these fab customers), that is all that matters. These days, the possibilities of what you buy in the way of penetrative sex toys can seem daunting and endless.

You might not know how you feel one way or another, which is fine, too. Talking things through with a partner can help you figure it out. All products featured on Self are independently selected by our editors.

Realistic balls add to the visual appeal and a suction cup makes it harness compatible for hands free play while deviating from the appearance of a real penis. Metal dildos made from stainless steel are also body-safe and easy to clean. They tend to be heavier than dildos made from other materials, which makes them a better choice if you enjoy more intense stimulation. Similar to glass, metal dildos don’t flex, so they might be less comfortable for some people.

If you love the stretchy feeling of a filling-penetration that takes you into orgasmic oblivion, you need a dildo. From big and thick dongs to smaller, slimmer shaft dildos, we’ve got every size, color, and curve you could ever want — and a few you didn’t know you needed. Pick from our realistic dildos or a porn star dildos to fulfill your wish-he-were-here sexual fantasies.

The Dulce is available in 5 flesh tones, which is more than the standard three ‘light, medium, and dark’ from most realistic dildo makers. From the makers of the RealDoll Inflatable Dildo, the RealCock 2 collection has taken every possible step to ensure the most highly realistic dildo available on the market. They’re pretty realistic in looks, and the firmer silicone has some upsides depending on how you plan to use it. They do come in some bright colors, along with a couple of realistic enough flesh tones. And the texturing is very realistic on the head, shaft, and balls even if the colors aren’t 100% authentic.

If you’re looking at hard toys, you’re likely looking at a non-realistic , and/or smaller toy (not always!). Not confined to realism, this kind of dildo can come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. If you’re planning on using your dildo vaginally then I’d recommend starting with a dildo between 4 to 5.1 inches in length, with a girth of 1.5 inches or less.

Gender bend and really start to explore your boundaries and your passions. Some of these so-called double dongs can also be used with harnesses and create a neat and new strapons experience. The most popular are definitely silicone, but they can also be made of plastic, rubber, wood, stainless steel, or even glass. With each dildo material, there are definitely rules that you should be mindful of following to keep your dildo in tip-top shape. The main concern is using a dildo made of toxic, unsafe materials. There are tons of cheap toys out there made from TPR, TPE, latex, PVC, or jelly materials that are either porous (can harbor bacteria) or downright toxic (can leech chemicals into your body).